If your teenager have smart phone , make sure you inspect it time to time. My 12yr old niece have been chatting to this 36yr old man for months now even arranged to meet and been sending each other insensitive content. Advise , take it or leave it
The best choice you can do for your young ones is to never give them a smartphone, only wait until they are old. And never assume you have them under control once you give them the phone, its never the case, no matter how tech savvy you think you are.
Men genuinely need to do better. Every day its warnings against their inappropriate behaviour. A 36 year old chatting to a 12 year old. He must get arrested nje Qha. Sies.
I have a 12 year old daughter with a smartphone this is scary
Yoh! We decided to give our then 8 year old mu old phone. The search history on the internet almost sent me to ICU, God knew i will need my dad and my husband shame.
Sorry about that bro, your correct its a must these days.. very shocking
I`m a mother of 2 teens... In this house we have "Google family link", which allows you to see which apps the kids are downloading, and they can`t download without an adult permission.. They are also not allowed to have Facebook or Twitter.
Can`t we just let kids be kids and not buy them phones? If it`s important that they have so you cam reach them can`t it just be a normal phones and not a smart one?
Like this. Young ones are vulnerable, proper monitoring will help them.
You can restrict a lot of contents and downloads from any phone before giving it to a minor
Hope yall did something to that man cos if he was talking to ur 12yr old niece imagine how many more children he dms
my 12 year old cousin brother had this family link app installed by his dad on his phone a couple of months later that lil nigga broke the password if how i really dont know but to be honest the kid is indulging in any suspicious activities
Did you call that mhlonishwa??? He must account for his actions
Weak and remote parenting. Why give a 13 year old a smart phone, for what exactly. Don`t tell me it`s for schooling purposes. The very same parents be busy at groove. If a smartphone is toxic to us adults what will it do to kids. Black parents let their kids get away with a lot
Kids do stupid things with phones. No phone for kids
Theres the PlayStation online friends aswell and I have no idea how that thing works
12 yrs old girl A smart phone don`t do that let her finish her studies and then buy her a phone when going to university
Caught my son (12) watching mapunapuna... took the phone away for gd.
Parents pls don`t letvur kids have passwords that you don`t know. Don`t allow it. I bought my daughter a phone on condition that we will use the same password on our phones, & we do. GoThruThatPhone! Make her understand that it`s not her u don`t trust, but the world..
Wouldnt advice any parents to get their child a fhone under the age of 18
I make sure I monitor everything even when Im not home I block apps I see her spending too much time on Take the phone and pretend to be your niece arrange a meet up at the private location and moer that guy
Just when I thought Mixit paedophiles were history, now this? . I remember nephew when he was younger furiously chatting on Mixit. I could tell he was chatting to much older man. Language used was that of an older person.
You are right, I manage my 13 year old`s social media accounts and the dm`s I receive are shocking from older guys nogal. I also check her App all the time....
Settle it bro. There is an app that can take care of all that. Down load Family Link an app store. It makes it easy to track your child/ward`s activities on their smart
This thing is easy... scan his or her whatsapp code then boom you`re in... on Facebook you must know his or her password.... this thing is easy guys..
There is something wrong with amadoda, i dont think anayo ingqondo
Come here what the heck!
Report him to the police
Thanks this is a serious issue for most parents
Problem is that you buy fancy phones for your kids buy those one`s that doesn`t even have camera
Lapho my lil 11 year old lost her phone I am so happy
I also got text from a 12 year old on WhatsApp aiii no
I check my niece`s phone all the time, she`s 16 years old but her phone will never be private and she knows that. We live in a cruel world.
Factory reset your child`s phone every after 3 days.....or buy a 3310 for them.... Laptop n computer connected to to the screen in the living room....Always b a step ahead no compromise when it comes to kids
This thread is scary, it shows us how my gender deserves to be called trash. How tf do you have feelings for a 12yr old child when youre nearly 40the community needs to get their hands on this paedophile, who knows how many kids he has already raped
Let`s teach our children better. It`s hard work but it must be done. As parents, the moment we give our children smartphones, we must be cognisant of the fact that we are potentially opening Pandora`s box. It is then up to us to keep them safe.
This kids need labo ma R200 phones just to reserve calls nama SMS Social media its very dangerous
lets camp here
No child of mine will have a phone until they go to varsity call me old fashion
This thread It`s very triggering to me. I can`t stop thinking about my own past. Being used by older guys thinking I`m the shit. I even fought with people because I was so gullible. I wish all parents strength to fight these pedophiles. We live in a sick world.
Say what now nee sies man I hope this meeting has been stopped my goodness like no man Arrange a meet up and get him arrested, then name and shame him.... People in his community should be made aware that they are living with a pedophile and should treat him accordingly.
I have installed family link on both our mobiles. She can`t download or visit sites without my permission
Installing Parental control Apps on the phone, setting up parental control with the Sim network helps. My daughter is 8 years, has 1 coz she communicates with her father n other family members with it. She can`t dwnld,text or even make a call without me being notified about it.
Just imagine a whole 36yrs a pervert sies
23 year old men, uthi bebejola no 12 year old child....sies,some men! Why kids own smartphones a kid should have popo and buy laptop`s i know social media can be installed on laptop but access is the key here so you are trying to minimise access on all nonsense happening
Thank you for bringing this up!, its something we need to talk about and protect our children. We live in a dark world. LetsTalk
Looking at the comments and so wish my daughter can stay 4yrs forever
My 13yr old nephew was busy with porn.
If you are a parent who has a child who still needs to be supervised on the content they consume on their phone, you need to install this Google app, Family Link. It lets you restrict what apps your child can download, sites they can visit and videos they can watch. Link their Google account to yours to monitor them as well
12 yrs and 36 yrs kodwa mara this man is he okay upstairs almost 40 yrs and busy with kids what`s happening in our country really aaaaaai I`m speechless and only God can intervene now
You can`t stop her from doing anything she wants.
I`ve always done this. She`s used to it because we have an understanding why it has to be done.
My 15yr old niece has password in all her devices. Let teach them about life than evading their privacy
This needs to be reported to the police.
Usile lo ona 36 going after a 12 year old.arg marn.
Was surprised my 2 nieces aged between 12-13 fought for a boy on FB. Advised their mothers to monitor their phones but they refused. I am scared on their behalf because both of them don`t look their age.
I took my 13year old smart phone when someone old asked my daughter of she has a boyfriend yet.
36yr old drop his or number lets deal with him
Am with you va
Also, how the hell did he get her number!!!!!!! Also, please open a case. Who knows how many other 12 year olds he has been talking to!!!!!!!!
Please advise her parents to get Apps to track cell behaviour. There are good spy apps to assist against creeps accessing our kids; violence; adult content; self-harm; bullying etc. Also, a tough conversation needs to be had with said niece. Please keep in mind she is 12
You can open a case against that man... He is exploiting a minor
You guys do know that you can link your kids phones with yours and be able to access and see everything thing and everyone they`re talking to on any platform without asking for their phones... right
Certain gents deserve to be locked in a cage 10 stories bellow ground
Please go to the police station and open a case, agree to meet with the person pretending to be your niece and show up with the police after he thinks she is alone.
Yho ha a its too much
My 12yr old son also has a tablet. I hate going through his whatsapp messages and Google history but I feel that I must because in his 12yr old mind,the world is not yet a twisted dark place the way WE know it. My intention is too protect him. My daughter changes her pin or pattern everytime when I have access to her phone... I will yell, scream but it will still be changed
Lapho this blob of sugar on my avi asked for a phone for her birthday. Ngaze ngavelelwa
My biggest fear , I always tell this daughter of mine how this things happen, I told her I see everything she does with her phone and she must not chat to strangers
The reason why I don`t want to get my 13 year old younger brother a phone.
you can put family settings and keep track.of what`s installed or not there .
Arrange a meeting and wait for him with the police. I am sure they can arrest him for exchanging porn with a minor
Yes this is a must , a friend found out that his son (10)has been watching porn for months
I told my 14 year old she is no longer getting a phone and will get it when she goes to varsity. I`ve seen and heard too much and it`s scary.
He`s a pervert please open a case against him
Continue to arrange the meetup and MOER that guy
not suprised.. its tough. been asking baby mama to monitor our 10yr old. kunzima
Hundreds percent sure it`s a white men
Lease le eme ka maoto man yoh
Just drop a picture of that dude nd his numbers. Will be very glad if u send em He banna, lemme go thru my 13 year old
Family link is very helpful to keep track of a child on the phone. It reports to you every app she downloads even games then you alprove of decline,I think we need to start there so even if you not home you know they can`t get ko tinder and all these apps.
Yhoo I always have this fear,our daughters are not safe at all
36years old were is the respect
Take the phone and pretend to be the niece, meet up with the dude and blicksem him until he know where the playground is
They really do need to be monitored every now and then
